> > Seriously > Touching......... > > > > Date > with a Woman… > > > > After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take > another woman out to dinner and a movie.. She said I love > you but I know this other woman loves you and would love to > spend some time with you. > > The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my > MOTHER, who has been a widow for 19 years, but the demands > of my work and my three children had made it possible to > visit her only occasionally. > > > That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and > a movie. > > 'What's wrong, are you > well,' she asked? My mother is the type of woman who > suspects that a late night call or a surprise invitation is > a sign of bad news. > > 'I thought that it would be pleasant to be with > you,' I responded. 'Just the two of us.' > > > She thought about it for a moment, and then said, 'I > would like that very much...' > > That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I > was a bit nervous. > > When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, > seemed to be nervous about our date. She waited in the door > with her coat on.. She had curled her hair and was wearing > the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last wedding > anniversary. > > > She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an > angel's. > > 'I told my friends that I was going to go out with my > son, and they were impressed, 'she said, as she got into > the car. 'They can't wait to hear about our > meeting'. We went to a restaurant that, although not > elegant, was very nice and > cozy. My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady. > > > After we sat down, I had to read the menu. Large print.. > Half way through the entries, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom > sitting there staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her > lips. > > > 'It was I who used to have to read the menu when you > were small,' she said. 'Then it's time that you > relax and let me return the favor,' I responded. > > During the dinner, we had an agreeable conversation - > nothing extraordinary, but catching up on recent events of > each other's life.. > > > We talked so much that we missed the movie. > > As we arrived at her house later, she said, 'I'll > go out with you again, but only if you let me invite > you.' I agreed. > > 'How was your dinner date?' asked my wife when I > got home. 'Very nice. > > > Much more so than I could have imagined,' I answered. > > A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. > It happened so suddenly that I > didn't have time to do anything for her. > Some time later, I received an envelope with a copy of a > restaurant receipt from the same place mother and I had > dined. > > An attached note said: 'I paid this bill in advance. I > wasn't sure that I could be there; but nevertheless, I > paid for two plates - one for you and the other for your > wife. You will never know what that night meant for me. > > > > I love you, son.' > > At that moment, I understood the importance of saying in > time: 'I LOVE YOU!' and to give our loved ones the > time that they deserve. Nothing in life is more important > than your family. Give them the time they deserve, because > these things cannot be put off till 'some > other time.' > > Pass this along to everyone with an aging > parent, > > to a friend, > > > to a child, > > to an adult, > > to anyone with a parents and all those about whom u think > always > > > > > > > > >
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தமிழுக்கும் அமுதென்று பேர், அந்தத் தமிழின்பத் தமிழ் எங்கள் உயிருக்கு நேர் -- பாவேந்தர் பாரதிதாசன்
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